By Thomas Liotta and Bonnie Liotta
Effective Positive Parenting Methods Changed Life as We Know It for My Children and My Teenagers And Me too!
When I became a mother, it was the most remarkable sensation on the planet. I think you do not really understand what love is till you hold your very own little child in your arms. I remember remaining awake all night looking at him. I would look forward to when he would get up so I could look at him more deeply and construct a bond with him. I was the one who was going to shield him, like him and be there for him.
I was going to be a terrific loving mom. My kids were going to be different because I would be so loving, understanding and cool. I recall reading a book called Kids are Worth it, written by Barbara Coloroso. She talked about jellyfish parenting strategies, brick wall parenting means and backbone parenting methods. I opted to deal with the backbone parenting techniques. This would be a parent who would stay with her parenting firearms with time-outs and discipline strategies, however additionally have the ability to flex with understanding. I likewise watched Supernanny Jo Frost a great deal. I adored exactly how she had the ability to develop order in disorderly households.
As my son quickly grew older he was depressed, angry and tired. He would spit things to me like “I wish to just kill myself.” This was heartbreaking to me and I recall constantly thinking that it was my job as a parent to make my kids pleased. Time-outs and punishment seemed to produce increasingly more negative sensations in between my son and me. It was always such a headache to get him to do anything that I ended up doing everything myself. After having 3 additional kids and experiencing the exact same outcome with all four kids, with different variations, I soon found myself a single mom in a state of hopelessness.
I fulfilled a gentleman in January of 2011 named Thomas Liotta. We were both involved with individual development, and we determined that we were going to collaborate to help parents reach success in their lives. I was a success coach and inspiring speaker for grownups, however my genuine passion was to help the darling little children cognite how excellent they are so they might have positive self-image, delight and success in their lives.
When Thomas started to communicate with my kids I saw that he used a favorable parenting method whenever, with superb outcomes. The children seemed happier when he was around and they always behaved wonderfully, however as soon as he would leave I was back to purposeless, lazy and ungrateful children. These methods were so one-of-a-kind I began to look for them online. I couldn’t locate these favorable parenting techniques anywhere.
I learnt that Thomas had possessed a Martial Arts School in Seattle, WA, where he ended up with literally thousands of kids registering and he was forced to work with 50 – 100 plus children at a time. He developed an approach for kid raising that includes directing habits with all positive parenting and does not utilize penalty methods at all. This program was so powerful it was chosen and sworn in into the United States Martial Arts Hall of Fame for being the most imaginative After School Program for kids and teens.
I started to utilize these strategieswith my kids and saw extraordinary positive results. Three out of 4 of my children had actually been diagnosed with ADD and my youngest son’s behavior was so bad that when he had a mood outburst in school last year they had to fully evacuate the class! That is when I began to telephone Thomas everyday to ask him guidance on ways to take care of my children. He constantly had a simple to use method for every scenario which allowed me to always reply yes to my kids while receiving much better outcomes in their actions, production and gratitude. I additionally saw a big change in total positive self-image, happiness and genuine happiness. Today my kids are all excelling in their classes, they are not on any kind of prescribed medicine, and they now realize that if they select to develop something in their life, they are in control of making things take place. Now I am experiencing more peace and fun in parenting.
After seeing the incredible favorable shift in all areas of my family’s lives due to the fact that of the positive parenting solutions found in the positive parenting way of life, I changed the actual direction of my life from helping grownups who have self-limiting beliefs to helping grownups raise their children with positive parenting options. This favorable parenting philosophy enables moms and dads to raise kids who act with self-control, duty and self-discipline. This positive parenting viewpoint allows the children to be independent, pleased and confident.
After having made this change, I cannot see why anyone would go back! Life gets better by the day! What a joy it is to live with happy kids!
Thomas Liotta brings over 15,000 hours of in-the-trenches training, with more than 2,000 children, using his award winning philosophy with 100% positive results. You have to see it to believe it!!! Get your FREE gift, the first 2 chapters of our new book, A simple Way to Guide Children and Teenagers to Happiness, Success and Gratitude.