How Did I Survive Little Screaming Meanies? Why Did I Merely Endure It when They Were Crazy Kids?

By Thomas Liotta and Bonnie Liotta

Effective Positive Parenting Methods Changed Life as We Know It for My Children and My Teenagers And Me too!

When I became a mother, it was the most remarkable sensation on the planet. I think you do not really understand what love is till you hold your very own little child in your arms. I remember remaining awake all night looking at him. I would look forward to when he would get up so I could look at him more deeply and construct a bond with him. I was the one who was going to shield him, like him and be there for him.

I was going to be a terrific loving mom. My kids were going to be different because I would be so loving, understanding and cool. I recall reading a book called Kids are Worth it, written by Barbara Coloroso. She talked about jellyfish parenting strategies, brick wall parenting means and backbone parenting methods. I opted to deal with the backbone parenting techniques. This would be a parent who would stay with her parenting firearms with time-outs and discipline strategies, however additionally have the ability to flex with understanding. I likewise watched Supernanny Jo Frost a great deal. I adored exactly how she had the ability to develop order in disorderly households.

As my son quickly grew older he was depressed, angry and tired. He would spit things to me like “I wish to just kill myself.” This was heartbreaking to me and I recall constantly thinking that it was my job as a parent to make my kids pleased. Time-outs and punishment seemed to produce increasingly more negative sensations in between my son and me. It was always such a headache to get him to do anything that I ended up doing everything myself. After having 3 additional kids and experiencing the exact same outcome with all four kids, with different variations, I soon found myself a single mom in a state of hopelessness.

I fulfilled a gentleman in January of 2011 named Thomas Liotta. We were both involved with individual development, and we determined that we were going to collaborate to help parents reach success in their lives. I was a success coach and inspiring speaker for grownups, however my genuine passion was to help the darling little children cognite how excellent they are so they might have positive self-image, delight and success in their lives.

When Thomas started to communicate with my kids I saw that he used a favorable parenting method whenever, with superb outcomes. The children seemed happier when he was around and they always behaved wonderfully, however as soon as he would leave I was back to purposeless, lazy and ungrateful children. These methods were so one-of-a-kind I began to look for them online. I couldn’t locate these favorable parenting techniques anywhere.

I learnt that Thomas had possessed a Martial Arts School in Seattle, WA, where he ended up with literally thousands of kids registering and he was forced to work with 50 – 100 plus children at a time. He developed an approach for kid raising that includes directing habits with all positive parenting and does not utilize penalty methods at all. This program was so powerful it was chosen and sworn in into the United States Martial Arts Hall of Fame for being the most imaginative After School Program for kids and teens.

I started to utilize these strategieswith my kids and saw extraordinary positive results. Three out of 4 of my children had actually been diagnosed with ADD and my youngest son’s behavior was so bad that when he had a mood outburst in school last year they had to fully evacuate the class! That is when I began to telephone Thomas everyday to ask him guidance on ways to take care of my children. He constantly had a simple to use method for every scenario which allowed me to always reply yes to my kids while receiving much better outcomes in their actions, production and gratitude. I additionally saw a big change in total positive self-image, happiness and genuine happiness. Today my kids are all excelling in their classes, they are not on any kind of prescribed medicine, and they now realize that if they select to develop something in their life, they are in control of making things take place. Now I am experiencing more peace and fun in parenting.

After seeing the incredible favorable shift in all areas of my family’s lives due to the fact that of the positive parenting solutions found in the positive parenting way of life, I changed the actual direction of my life from helping grownups who have self-limiting beliefs to helping grownups raise their children with positive parenting options. This favorable parenting philosophy enables moms and dads to raise kids who act with self-control, duty and self-discipline. This positive parenting viewpoint allows the children to be independent, pleased and confident.

After having made this change, I cannot see why anyone would go back! Life gets better by the day! What a joy it is to live with happy kids!

Thomas Liotta brings over 15,000 hours of in-the-trenches training, with more than 2,000 children, using his award winning philosophy with 100% positive results. You have to see it to believe it!!! Get your FREE gift, the first 2 chapters of our new book, A simple Way to Guide Children and Teenagers to Happiness, Success and Gratitude.

The Child Deserves a Beating, Really?

Just how frequently has your kid stated, “I really want this!” or “I need that!” right after you have done something wonderful for them? You make plans to take your youngster out for lunch time. You arrive and get the youngster lunch and all she can do is ask for candy! Argh! It aggravating point where you don’t even wish to hear it any longer. Excellent parents will eventually resent their children. They will just think to themselves, “When is it my turn?” or “When is my child going to honestly say thank you?” I have also seen moms and dads inform their kid, “I don’t care what you want!” Now, whenyou see it in print, just how does that answer feel to you? Does it feel kind or bad?

Disregarding a kid’s demand or telling them, “I don’t care” will cause an instantaneous parent-child power struggle! Visualize just what it would seem like to talk to someone about something that is actually vital to you and the one you truly love or rely upon simply just ignores you. It would not feel great, would it? The more often the kid feels dismissed, the more distressed they is going to be and the more power battles the moms and dads will see with their kid or young teen.

The video attached is just a re-enactment, but it portrays the mascot of the shop chewing out the child to get her to shut up. This makes no real sense, does it? Many of the discussions on YouTube are “The kid deserves a spanking!” and “I always, always minded my parent since I was frightened of exactly what they would most certainly do.” If you grow up with worry, does it make sense that you will live your whole adulthood in anxiety? So, what is the right answer?

It is necessary to validate the youngster’s needs rather than simply dismissing her or him. This makes good sense for any age, including terrible twos, older youngster tantrum, as well as teen rebellion. Simply the reality that you are verifying what they are speaking about, in most circumstances, will immediately prevent the dreadful parent-child power battle altogether!

This is the moment to keep an open and positive mind! The next time your kid is telling you of something that is clearly essential to them, just tell the youngster, “I hear that you desire candy. I would love for you to have candy. Can you describe to me 3 behaviors you could do that could show great behavior in the restaurant?” When the child answers with the correct answers, “Be silent, sit still and be kind,” and she will, then praise her for being so clever and promise her that when she shows you peaceful, cooperative and kind behavior in the restaurant, she definitely can have her treat. Makes sense, yes? Makes for good parenting, yes?

How Do I Make My Kid Go To School?

By Thomas Liotta and Bonnie Liotta

3 Parenting Ways to Help Guide Your Kid or Young Teens to Go to School!

Every great parent would prefer to enlighten their kid, tweens and teens well. Some moms and dads pick public school, where the government chooses what to teach your kid or young teen, and some choose to home school. Either method, it is very important to guarantee your child or young teen gets well educated. Why is it essential for them to go to school? Why is it important to you for your child or teen to go to school?

As a mother, I believe, we send our children to school so they might have the very best chance to succeed in life: We want the finest for them; we desire them to be happy; we desire them to have real possibilities in life. Some methods that moms and dads are taking today to, generally, force their child or teen go to school are idle but serious threats, dictational punishment, and associational “guilt” parenting designs that are really setting the kid up for failure now and in their future.

In desiring the very best for their future we often tend to say things like “Why don’t you wish to go to school?” or “Do you wish to be a dummy for the rest of your life?” It is also simple for moms and dads to unknowingly demean the kid by belittling that which is necessary to them. The child states, “I do not want to attend school!” And the mom and dad returns with, “I do not care what you desire!” The power struggle will continue until the child is a young teen, then the teen gets labeled as a person with an inadequate attitude.

If you are a mom and/or dad using these outdated punishment ideas, you are creating everything, good or bad, that your kid is producing. From one mother to an other, it’s necessary to read on to figure out what 3 favorable parenting techniques my husband Thomas Liotta has taught me so I can share them with you regarding guiding your child to go to school in a means that empowers them instead of taking their power away from them.

3 Effective Parenting Styles to Help Guide Your Child or Teenager to Go to School

Your child says, “I don’t wish to ever go to school.”

1. Understand that your child speaks a different language than you do. They do not have the ability to think abstractly till after the age of 13. “I do not wish to go to school” may mean a whole lot of things. A good parent will understand the language their kid speaks and will speak in a way that the child will understand. Parental responsibility here.

2. Help guide your kid to decide to go to school by asking them good questions. When your kid is goofing off instead of preparing for school, instead of dictating, “You have to go to school,” ask the kid a question: “Little Timmy, what should we be doing now?” He will reply, “Getting ready for school.” Then you could praise him, “Ah, look how clever you are. Exactly what do we need to do to become ready?” “We have to brush our teeth, eat our cereal and get dressed.” “Perfect! Little Timmy, you always know the right answers. You are so clever, look at you! When you get that done in the next 10 minutes, we will have time to read that tale you wished to read before you go.”

3. Anything that the kid states is very important to them must be essential to you. Rather than dismissing exactly what is important for your kid, constantly acknowledge them and say, “Yes, I wish for you to do that, have that or be that, too. You absolutely could do that after you go to school!”.

There is constantly a means to say yes, and to lovingly lead your child or teenager to the result that you choose. By understanding the different languages, empowering your kid with the right questions (not abstract ones) and by guiding them with love, you will put an end to the parent andkid power battle for life!

Guide them lovingly, with good questions!

Thomas Liotta brings over 15,000 hours of in-the-trenches training with 2,000+ children. He saw a 100% success rate with every child in self-control, responsibility and self-discipline. You can too. Get your FREE gift! The first 2 chapters of our new positive parenting book, A Simple Way to Guide Children and Teenagers to Happiness, Success and Gratitude.